Just been through a divorce, want to be discreet about sending $ to a Phil Bank?

If you're talking about less than $500, you can go to the post office and purchase a money order, and deposit it like a check to the other bank. For larger amounts, you can go to your bank and get a cashier's check. These are the most discreet because they usually won't show on your bank statement who the money went to. Fees range from 50 cents for a money order to $10 for a cashier's check.